{"id":662,"date":"2025-07-07T08:00:47","date_gmt":"2025-07-07T05:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/?p=662"},"modified":"2025-07-20T20:43:57","modified_gmt":"2025-07-20T17:43:57","slug":"storyden-psikoterapiye-part-time-psikolog-part-time-influencer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/2025\/07\/07\/storyden-psikoterapiye-part-time-psikolog-part-time-influencer\/","title":{"rendered":"Temmuz 2025"},"content":{"rendered":"

Story\u2019den Psikoterapiye: Part-Time Psikolog, Part-Time Influencer<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fclme arzusunun belki de en tehlikeli bi\u00e7imlerine tan\u0131kl\u0131k ediyoruz bug\u00fcnlerde. Bunun nedeni, bu arzunun tatmininin art\u0131k bir an meselesi olmas\u0131. Bug\u00fcn herkes yaln\u0131zca bir video uzakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmaktan. \u201cNarsistle Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kman\u0131n 6 Yolu\u201d, \u201c\u0130li\u015fkinizin Toksik Oldu\u011funu G\u00f6steren 5 Madde\u201d ve buna benzer ayn\u0131 fabrikadan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na s\u0131ralanan durum ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlerle burun burunay\u0131z. Her duygusal s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya haz\u0131r bir \u2018ne yapmal\u0131?\u2019 listesi var art\u0131k. Sanki ruhsal ac\u0131, madde madde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclebilecek bir teknik meseleymi\u015f gibi. \u0130\u00e7inden ge\u00e7ilen bu ben bilirimci, \u015f\u00fcphe bar\u0131nd\u0131rmayan ve her duruma \u201cte\u015fhis koyan\u201d tav\u0131r, insan\u0131 do\u011frudan, y\u00fczeysel neden-sonu\u00e7 ili\u015fkilerine itiyor. Oysa baz\u0131 sorular vard\u0131r ki, yan\u0131tlar\u0131 sessizliktedir. Ve o sessizlik, bir\u00e7ok olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u015fitilece\u011fi yerdir. Sessizlikte kalamayan ki\u015fi, kendini kaotik bir g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcde bulur. Belki de as\u0131l meziyet, bildi\u011fi her \u015feyin \u015f\u00fcphe edilebilir oldu\u011funu kabul etmekte yat\u0131yor. As\u0131l bilgelik, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmedi\u011fini kabul etme cesareti olabilir.<\/p>\n

Semptom her zaman konu\u015fur. Kimi zaman bir dil s\u00fcr\u00e7mesinde, kimi zaman bir duraksamada, bazen de bir davran\u0131\u015fta… Ama ila\u00e7 ve\/veya bir davran\u0131\u015f re\u00e7etesi, semptomu susturur. B\u00f6ylelikle semptomun asl\u0131nda ne demek istedi\u011fi anla\u015f\u0131lmaz hale gelir. Susturulan semptom, san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi rahatlatmaz insan\u0131; aksine yerini \u201cbir \u015fey eksik ama ne?\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesiyle \u00f6zneyi bo\u015fluk hissine b\u0131rak\u0131r. <\/p>\n

\u2028Psikoterapi, ciddi bir i\u015ftir. Ki\u015finin \u00f6znelli\u011fini g\u00f6rmezden gelen her m\u00fcdahale, eksik kalmaya mahk\u00fbmdur. \u00d6znellik yok say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, tan\u0131lar yaln\u0131zca bir adland\u0131rma olarak kal\u0131r. Anlam\u0131n d\u0131\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7te, semptom da giderek \u00e7i\u011fle\u015fir. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, daha \u00f6nce \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131labilir olan anksiyetenin yerini giderek ham ve i\u015flenmemi\u015f bir deneyim olan panik bozukluk al\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Zaman\u0131n h\u0131z kazanmas\u0131yla birlikte ruhsall\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z da esir al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f durumda. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi sindiremiyor, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye vakit ay\u0131ram\u0131yor, beklemeye tahamm\u00fcl edemiyoruz. Simgesel alan, ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za anlam verebildi\u011fimiz, duygusal ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsel ba\u011flam\u0131 kurabildi\u011fimiz bir i\u00e7sel alan gibidir. Simgesel alan\u0131m\u0131z darald\u0131k\u00e7a ham ve i\u015flenmemi\u015f semptomlar\u0131m\u0131za da en h\u0131zl\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc bulma aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda buluyoruz kendimizi. \u2028\u2028<\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fclme arzusu belki de pek \u00e7ok \u015feyi i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. Bebek, hen\u00fcz Lacan\u2019\u0131n tan\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayna evresine bile gelmeden \u00f6nce kendini \u00f6tekinin bak\u0131\u015f\u0131yla \u015fekillendirir ve varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 o bak\u0131\u015f \u00fczerine in\u015fa eder. Winnicott\u2019un sorusunu hat\u0131rlayal\u0131m: Bebek, annenin y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ne g\u00f6r\u00fcr? Cevap \u015fudur: Kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc annenin y\u00fcz\u00fc, ona kendi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131t\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bu ilk kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma, s\u00f6zc\u00fcklere d\u00f6k\u00fclemese de, ruhun en derin katmanlar\u0131na i\u015flenir. Belki de bebek, ilk nesnesinden alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o bak\u0131\u015f\u0131, hayat boyu her y\u00fczde aramaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u2028\u2028Freud\u2019un tan\u0131nma ve kabul ihtiyac\u0131yla ili\u015fkilendirdi\u011fi d\u00fcrt\u00fc, bug\u00fcn sosyal medya \u00fczerinden tatmin edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor.\u2028\u2028<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ve belki de en ac\u0131 olan\u0131, bug\u00fcn baz\u0131 ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 profesyonellerinin g\u00f6r\u00fclme arzusunu \u2018yard\u0131m etme\u2019 niyetiyle maskeleyerek sahneye \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131d\u0131r. Yard\u0131m etme iddias\u0131ndaki i\u00e7erikler, asl\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman izleyiciyi de\u011fil, i\u00e7erik \u00fcreticisini iyile\u015ftirmeyi hedefliyor. Yard\u0131m, ara\u00e7salla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor; yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 olanla yard\u0131m edenin konumlar\u0131 i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7iyor ve bu bulan\u0131kl\u0131kta kimin kime yard\u0131m etti\u011fi belirsizle\u015fiyor. G\u00f6r\u00fclmek i\u00e7in konu\u015fmak, konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmek… derken ki\u015fi kendini, yard\u0131ma ihtiyac\u0131 olan de\u011fil \u2018yard\u0131m ediyormu\u015f gibi yapan\u2019 bir rolde bulabiliyor. G\u00f6r\u00fclmek \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, ama anla\u015f\u0131lmak derinlik ve zaman ister.<\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcnlerde \u00e7ok\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek kolay. Ama ger\u00e7ekten g\u00f6r\u00fclmek h\u00e2l\u00e2 zor. Ve psikoterapi, adeta kahve e\u015fli\u011finde sunulan bir dijital iyi hissetme rit\u00fceline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n

\u2028\u2028Meziyet \u00e7o\u011fu zaman belirli durumlarda nas\u0131l davran\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek de\u011fildir. Bu y\u00fczdendir ki psikologlar\u0131n kendi psikanalitik s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinden ge\u00e7ip, \u015fifa da\u011f\u0131tmadan \u00f6nce kendilerini \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 m\u00fchimdir. Aksi halde terapist, dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131 kendi karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcr\u00fctmenin \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7emez ve birlikte kaybolurlar. <\/p>\n

Uzm. Klinik Psikolog Sedef Atik<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Story\u2019den Psikoterapiye: Part-Time Psikolog, Part-Time Influencer G\u00f6r\u00fclme arzusunun belki de en tehlikeli bi\u00e7imlerine tan\u0131kl\u0131k ediyoruz bug\u00fcnlerde. Bunun nedeni, bu arzunun tatmininin art\u0131k bir an meselesi olmas\u0131. Bug\u00fcn herkes yaln\u0131zca bir video uzakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmaktan. \u201cNarsistle Ba\u015fa \u00c7\u0131kman\u0131n 6 Yolu\u201d, \u201c\u0130li\u015fkinizin Toksik Oldu\u011funu G\u00f6steren 5 Madde\u201d ve buna benzer ayn\u0131 fabrikadan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f\u00e7as\u0131na s\u0131ralanan durum ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlerle […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-662","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/662","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=662"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/662\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1739,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/662\/revisions\/1739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=662"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=662"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sedefatik.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=662"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}